1. If she wants to have a bunch of male "friends" she should never have gotten into a relationship or marriage. The horror. Candice Watters is the author of Get Married: What Women Can Do to Help it Happen, and co-author with her husband, Steve, of Start Your Family: Inspiration for Having Babies.Together they created Boundless in 1998. Im sorry but your husband sounds like an arse,if he knows you already feel insecure about there "friendship" then he should put your feelings before anyone elses and end the friendship or like you said at least involve you in it,I think what makes it worse is the fact he goes on about how great she is etc. Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? As historian Stephanie Coontz of Evergreen State College noted when I asked her about the subject, the Industrial Revolutionera doctrine of separate mens and womens spheres limited interaction between the sexes for a large chunk of American history: Mens spheres were public life and the workplace, and womens was the home. She also said she thought I would be asleep the whole time at that time in the morning (usually am) so that she thought Iwouldn'tt worry since I would be asleep. I feel bad for you for beating on yourself for something that was beyond your control. the wife of someone who was becoming too close to a work colleague and going out for drinks after work and even one dinner (!) They are pleasant to one another, but they don't make close friends or engage in heavy flirtation with people they work with. Boundaries have to be placed before the fact. You should always try NOT to get a parent involved in your relationship if you can help it. If that idea makes them uncomfortable, then demand to know why. If she cares about him as a friend then she should at least be curious to meet the love of his life and mother of his children ie. He might even urge you to drink with him as many times as possible. Never put the money rumor and the attention together. Look, this might sound simple, but it's true. I don't agree, I think different generations see things a bit differently. It was just friendly (although he was flattering about the way I look and he is clearly an attractive man) BUT I am not interested in any other way than friends. and just chill. Started Monday at 06:41 PM, By A321 Posts: 6,363. . I would not be okay with that if the behavior were repeated over and over. in a tone like asking "is it really a big deal?" Another one of the best signs a female coworker is attracted to you is the smile. It is this secrecy about her that makes me feel uncomfortable on your behalf? A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2013): Actually, the converse is true: it is *usually* OK for a married man to take a female friend out to lunch, whether paying for it or not (hey you invite someone to celebrate their occasion, courtesy says you pay). It was a bank, one of the most screwed up work environments I've ever been in. Maybe it is just a female perspective. This doesn't just mean don't cheat- it means keep yourself out of situations that make you look bad, even if you're innocent. On the other hand, though, since I don't have first hand experience with infidelity, I'm worried there may be more subtler red flags I'm ignoring or not noticing. Your husband has a choice to stay at the bar to entertain this single young lady or go home with his wife. These things all happened with different women, and are just some of the more egregious examples. I'm curious about the male perspective on this. But my friend raised the stakes by proposing similar hypothetical situations that werent as easy to dismiss. When is it OK to be alone with someone elses spouse? Am I being gas lighted? He's happily married,we talked alot obout his DW who I don't know, and his DC. But she didn't do that, she turned it all around on him. Alleybux. To what kind of husband would that be ok? The Supreme Courts 2003 Lawrence v. Texas decision legalized all consensual sex between adults. While there may be no legal case against you, he will stand to lose his marriage, his property, and may even have to pay financial assistance depending on how his wife chooses to proceed with the case. It might be worth saving your marriage to take a little time off of work and look into things.without her knowing you're off, of course. I find that really strange. While this can be a helpful resource for some, others are using these platforms to self-diagnose and potentially harm their mental health. I think having a few drinks with colleagues is normal. If one of them asks to lunch with you alone, you would tell them no, you have errands to run on lunch, then suggest you do it some other time (and invite others out to lunch at the same time). I've been thinking a lot about this thread today. Been there, done that, it won't end well. I believe there are other factors to take into consideration. It's helped me a lot and I hope others as well. As a married man with a career, he's likely quite busy - and that's even more true if he has kids. Is there a cycle of her doing this, you getting angry. Melrich and HellFrost, are there any red flags you've noticed with married women trying to hit on you or set up an inappropriate situation to see if you'd go along with an affair? Gorgeous, buff, hilarious, intelligent and accomplished - just my type. I'll get my nails done, or I'll maybe hit up a hair salon for a mid-week blow-out. the problem is that what is your wife doing while the GF . Going above and beyond to help you out, not once or twice but over and over again is among the obvious signs that a married man loves you. She said she was just waiting to sober up to drive home. She made a face like it wouldnt be a big deal. Kalypsok I start calling her thinking ok something bad must have happened. No answer to multiple calls, so now I am getting super worried and super pissed about the situation to the point where I call the hospital just to see if she was checked in or something (yeah I know, that might be going a bit too far but ya never know.). Um absolutely NOT. Okay, big duh. Didn't seek out any meaningful relationships for three solid years after figuring out the truth, was so disenchanted with the whole system. Only sad, pathetic girls fall in love with married men. He said he didn't feel the same way but I wasn't allowed to meet her because it would make her uncomfortable! It's not controlling to be wary of what your wife is up to when she is hanging out with a newly single woman and going to bars until closing. What sort of overlap in schedules does the OP have with his wife? So I guess my answers is no, not repeatedly. It's not always easy, but if you love each other, you'll figure out what works for you and try to do that. Registered Joined Jan 26, 2012 On the one hand, I'm very street smart and I know how to tell if a married man is hitting on me. Sit down and place those boundaries now. If I go out with friends (without my husband) or vice versa (husband goes out without me) we will tentatively agree on a timeframe that we will be home. He's a married man. It becomes a problem only if there is an inordinate amount of time spent alone together that is not business related. I agree with the poster above who said the signs are usually pretty easy to read and I think your radar is in tune enough not to miss them. Be diligent and thorough. Many office affairs begin in similar situations. Drinking in someone's home - a woman with several men - husband not present - wife gets pissy when questioned - enough is drunk that the person can't drive and needs to sleep it off. Besides the going out drinking with male coworkers none of her behavior seems like she values or respects you. @Tara, "but the men go to meet beautiful women". cut out the caffeine, and ditched the sugar. What if your life partner and an acquaintance, sports fans both, watched the Big Game by themselves? Why not ask your wife to lunch? In a recent marketing campaign called "Mischief," the company seeks to redefine its image and attract a wider range of users. I text her saying "I guess since I am married I would never go out drinking with two women from work for 7 hours without you being there and that I dont know anyone that would be ok with this situation.". answers from Boston on April 21, 2012. He asked her out a second time. Communication is very important and a lot of things can go wrong without it. She can meet you and the children. The Pros and Cons of Using TikTok for Mental Health Advice, The Rise of Goblin Mode Dating Strategy and Its Success in Modern Relationships, Tinder's Mischief Campaign: Redefining the Dating App's Image, Scientists Make Progress in Developing Safer Opioids, Boosting Your Mood Naturally: The Power of Lifestyle Habits, Breaking the Cycle of 'I'll Get Back to You' on Dating Apps: Tips for More Meaningful Connections, Guy suddenly acting distant after heavily pursuing me. Younger (straight) married couples today have grown up in a world in which their sexual and relationship choices were never societys business. reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2013): A Welcome to the Digital Spy forums. This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies. Is my new friend a flirt or is he interested? That her social life -- like many adults -- revolves around work? Maybe he knew you wouldnt like it but needed someone else to speak to if they are as rough as you say. If youd like to join in, please sign in or register. My entire career I've gone out with guys alone, even on business trips, and I've never had a married coworker hit on me or do anything inappropriate. It's possible that he'll get upset when you tell him the truth. But I do think that sometimes boundaries get blurry and that's why it's good to notice subtle red flags. Our R M Mavash. Just seems to me to be an unusual thing to worry about. answers from Chicago on October 30, 2008. Its up to us, as always, to keep each other happy by working out the rules on our own. ", So she gets off work at 2am (she works late shift). Feb 4, 2012. You don't want to be seen as the office prude either. The OP's wife clearly has a distorted view of what a relationship and marriage is. I dont think you have the right to tell him he can't! I fall back asleep until 8am. 15. I was in the worst shape of my life, was working long hours, not in a good state of mind, and suddenly BOOM, 5 different married women and one engaged one wanting a piece of my fat ass. Some of our partners may process your data as a part of their legitimate business interest without asking for consent. traditional sex war drags on in the background. Of course, women have many reasons to smile. I have no problem because I love girls weekends. If he wants to see her, suggest she comes round for dinner and drinks at yours. Last week I went out for drinks with an ex-coworker. Ah, Wednesday. I want to know if iam over reacting or if I have a right to be upset? Maybe I am oblivious to these things but I am pretty sure no married woman has ever tried to hit on me (and I don't blame them!!). Copyright 1997-2022 LoveShack.org. Don't try to convince yourself that it's a fashion ring or something else. The way she speaks to you, the way she acts like you're bothering her by showing concern, the way she acts flippant when you've been calling her and worried like why are you calling etcthat is UTTERLY disrespectful and she sounds like an immature 16 year old who's trying to stick it to her parents by being rebellious. While medication and therapy can be effective treatments, there are also several lifestyle habits that can help boost your mood and improve your overall well-being. Obviously the friend is looking to meet guys and she is using your wife as a wingman. Maybe it is a bonus season, or she just landed a major deal. It's a date!!! My oh had a work friend like that, it turns out she was in love with him. This is a good response as to how to "hang out" with married guy friends if you have concerns. She complained. I had nothing to hide so DH was invited along to every get together. I'm curious about the male perspective on this. What about a married woman going out for a drink with a married man who is a friend. Her getting angry, apologies, love and back around again? So she rushes home and yells at me asking what my problem is and that it was a **** move texting her making her feel like a ****ty person and wife. Not in any specific way. At the same time, weve removed our government from its historic role as a regulator of sexual morality. He's wearing a ring! male OP, it isn't ok. For 7 hours? Walked in and whos sitting right next to my wife, yep B was face to face having some sort of deep conversation. I recently went for lunch with a new co-worker. OH is always keen to introduce me to his female friends and it's nice to spend time together in a big group. My husband likes to have a beer or two so he does go to the local dive bars with the guys after work. We and our partners use cookies to Store and/or access information on a device. What might be happening is that our jealous reptile brains havent caught up with new social rules and gender roles. He said all the classic lines, such as telling me he and his wife no longer had sex and that she no longer was in love with him, that she didn't understand him the way I did, that he was going to get divorced from his wife and wanted to be with me, etc. If you or someone close to you is currently in crisis or in an emergency situation, contact your local law enforcement agency or emergency number. The three of us went out to dinner the first night - no problem. In any event, like CAD and LavendarDove said earlier, I think the key is to act naturally and NOT treat male colleagues differently from female ones or treat them as if they are potential predators (Of course, I am NOT saying that YOU do this). When I met my husband, he had a good friend at work, a single girl, who is EXTREMELY flirtatious, and at least a little annoying. I think you two should definitely sit down and have a discussion and set some boundaries. And to be honest, if you want to succeed in business (and not by having sex with the higher ups), then you need to behave professionally in all circumstances and not flirt. You know what that means- play fighting. Maybe you're even married. I've been reading this forum with interest lately because of finding out recently about a couple of my married male friends who were caught engaging in affairs. 5. male Another married male colleague and I go out quite often for a drink or to run errands or whathaveyou and it couldn't be more platonic, and again, his wife is completely cool with it. Again, while I don't necessarily condone the amount of time (8 hours) she spent drinking with these guys, I don't see that infraction alone as necessitating a divorce, without at least a lot more effort to try to work something out. (Yea, I'm such a homewrecker, I know!). what do I do? Jay Casey, a 34-year-old production assistant, considers himself a pretty regular drinker on any given night, he estimates he might have five drinks . You can let him know you don't like it but thats about it. . I went to the bar and took my time ordering my drink while observing them before i decided to interrupt them. And if for some reason I didn't do that and he called me worried, I'd apologize. She said they have asked her many times to come out and she has turned them down because Iwouldn'tt come along and the one time she says yes I freak out on her. I wouldnt. Am I being a typical insecure guy on this? 1. She's blonde, beautiful, skinny, and he thinks a lot of her, always going on about how attractive she is and how she deserves a nice bloke. Married men know the power of a charm offensive. Then upon your return was gushing about how wonderful/attractive/amazing he was? In many parts of the world, of course, ideas about what married people can and cant do are enforced by religious and legal authorities (mostly to the detriment of women), but no one here was suggesting that they were morally uneasy about the mere idea of men and women (or gay men and women and other gay men and women, as it were) being alone together. Were probably more suspicious now than we used to be because there arent the restrictions, the social restrictions, the whole broad range of habits that kept people separate 50 or 60 years ago, Berkowitz says. She says they are just friends and that they went over to their place and played some board games and had a lot of innocent fun while getting smashed. So, could any of you with more knowledge and experience please enlighten me (and hopefully others)? I don't see the problem with friends of the opposite sex when you are in a relationship but this is quite different. are there any red flags you've noticed with married women trying to hit on. What you feel is not unfair it completely acceptable. I feel very vulnerable because I'm single. Remember, revenge is a dish best served cold. However, acting on those urges and desires becomes an issue in a monogamous marriage. Candice Watters. Going To A Bar Alone Is Cool If It's Just Temporary. Not Taking Responsibility. But what she is doing cannot be acceptable when she is married to a husband who cares about her and not coming for 8 hours home? They get on really well. I'm just listening and taking it all in. Maybe that is just a male perspective. (The situation is obviously much different for gay couples.). I think, just my opinion, the issue is how you both communicate. Then don't cross them with married people. Based on when she got off work, you can't look at the hours of the day because her 2:00 a.m. is other people's 5:00 o'clock. Thanks xx Know I've got to broach this subject tonight before he goes away on business. That should be an obvious sign you're dating a married man. It is improper for you to go out with a man you have not committed yourself to. You've given him X amount of years of your life and given him two beautiful children. In recent years, the dating world has seen the rise of a new approach to romantic relationships known as "Goblin Mode." You know, if you're meeting up with friends at a bar and you get there early. It's a confidence booster Flirting with an unavailable man can make you feel good about yourself without any pressure to. Your own survival is crucial, and if you do happen to fall in love with a married man, there are several hard truths you need to know. The kids are the biggest thing though. Little did they imagine how quickly 25 years would pass and that today, they'd have four children, two of them old enough to read Boundless for themselves. On the second day, the male manager had a fire he had to put out back at the office, so he was asked to fly back home immediately. Say for instance, if I get off work at 4pm and am going out with friends after, I will say "I will probably be home by 10" and if plans change and I think I'm going to be out later, I will call or text with an updated timeframe. Thanks. jwrunner81 Registered in England. Am I way off base for getting mad about this? You may have noticed unhappy employees joking about wanting to burn down their . A. M. Cazares Mother, Author, and Pro Se Litigant (1997-present) Author has 3K answers and 1.2M answer views 1 y Related A new female coworker asked my husband for his socials knowing he's married. Do you think you could be being oversensitive because you are in this rough patch? Though I was really out of shape and considered myself unattractive at the time, I had made a lot of money in a single day, far from the norm, but the people I was working with probably thought I made that much regularly, the amount got embellished, and word got around the place. reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2013): A Has her drinking been an ongoing issue? Breastfeeding: the trick to a comfy latch. Say what you will, but there's often quite a bit of truth to jokes. It Turned Out To . Fortnite It's a variation of understanding you shouldn't ever put yourself in a 'compromising position', which means spending alone time/talk of any kind with a married man. Started February 24, By Doing something wrong and then turning it around on someone else is childish. I saw the texts. Yet, at that time I didn't understand that. Me, her, and her boyfriend. If you started off with this attitude then no wonder he hasnt asked you to meet her, why would you introduce your friend to someone who had a negative attitude towards them from the start? 1. Shutterstock. She did tell you and invite you. When my friend shared this story with me and several others via email, all agreed that there is nothing improper about a married person being home with a Comcast specialist when his/her husband/wife is away. I take it she will know nothing about it? Several said they'd be uncomfortable if their spouse or partner engaged in certain interactions without them and/or felt their spouses might not be happy with them if they did the same. I think this was a huge undermining of your relationship.. a year from now you may actually hear what really happened.. Before anybody screams "get real," I'm sure people hook up but I'm just saying not all men are on the prowl, etc. Partying all night with other men is a boundary you should have let her know she can't cross. This isnt advice for me..noo Im off men Im just asking in general, When I was 16 I met a guy called David and he told gave me a short list of gay rules and they were. 13 - _l. 2)avoid bisexuals. I've always said that people should be allowed friends of the opposite sex and especially if the friendship started before you met your partner you have no real right to try and interfere in that friendship. So, obviously unconscious and occupying a bed in another person's house with various men there, including even non-coworkers (perhaps complete strangers to her; perhaps one of them is a very special person indeed). I would bet my life savings (if I had any!) Chill out, Bill! That summer we'd go out every weekend to the local. She did tell you and invite you. Looking back on things, I feel my behavior didn't align with my values because I gave into pressure from my mother and friends to give this man a chance. :(. And he has picked up on it. It also means deflecting their attempts to get alone time with you. Her work friends invite her out. That left me and the lady manager. Most people who work contacts in business situations do it in groups, or at work itself. As a woman I cannot accept it. X. . I was in that situation. remerz What sort of overlap in schedules does the. Feeling down or depressed is a common experience for many people at some point in their lives. Is it not possible that OP's wife doesn't have many friends? Christmas he doesnt want to spend it with me or nye. Waiting outside the bar for your friends is also weird. 5. Hope that makes sense. Married man going out for drinks with female work colleague. If we leave work at 5 and stay out until midnightor later. Now such interactions are common, and not suspicious in any legal sensebut can still carry the hint of wrongness. Second, if you want to hang out with other women, better ask yourself, "Why?" The fact that it was all men makes it a little shifty. If she was single then another story. None of the above is compatible with a long-lasting, happy, faithful marriage. I do not drink but I go to have girl time and chat. His family will always come first, and that . How do I explain something to the Girl I am dating? carlanicole YOU should come first. He's wearing a ring. The shock. All contents 2023 The Slate Group LLC. He tries to highlight the similarities between the two of you. She is still not home. 9. It pains me when I see how disposable people think marriage is. Is that inappropriate or normal? If you practice the philosophy that you don't put yourself in compromising positions alone with them (especially involving partying alone or drinking with them), and don't engage in flirting and personal email/IM messaging, you will avoid most of the problems. . He has helped men from all over the world to easily fix relationship . Going for a drink with a married man? I agree with missali that it sounds as if he likes the attention and it's almost as if he wants you to feel jealous? You've been in a relationship for years. From here on out, it's about being emotionally and financially protected. Looking for advice on handling a disappointing visit. The main common denominator was that when I didn't respond, they didn't continue the attention. He often jokes about leaving his wife. I've never had an affair nor had anyone cheat on me. Again her reasoning's are that they are just friends, she wishes I would trust her judgement and that I was being **** making her feel like a terrible wife. None said that the hypothetical situations would make them seriously suspicious that their partners were being unfaithful. And if for some reason time got away from me I'd call or text my husband so he wouldn't worry. Better to do something before it get worst? Answer: I think you'll both be happier if you let her go out with friends within reason, of course. Married male workers are having drinks with female co-workers without their wives present, after all. If your single and you have met a man and hes married would it be acceptable to go out for a drink with him without his wife as friends? - NO! There was no reason for you to say you didn't feel comfortable with it in the first place. 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